We celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary this weekend with camping trip up the Lochsa.
free camping at "Kayaker Camp"
pancakes in a cast iron skillet (the. best.) documented with IP film and the SX-70
a nice soak in Weir Hot Springs - all to ourselves
and a pair of eagles riding the currents above the ridge where we camped.
This past year was probably the most difficult in our relationship. But we both had some major breakthroughs and now we're in possibly the best shape ever as husband and wife. Each marriage has its own strengths and weaknesses and if you'd asked me 11 years ago if I was ready to go through all of it, I would've returned a blank stare. I didn't know what I was capable of then, and maybe I still don't.
But accepting your partner 100% they way they are is the best advice I have after 11 years. Just this past year I finally let go of The Way It Should Be and opened my heart to The Way It Is. Don't judge, just love. Simple as that.